14 April 2010

Thank God for Voice Mail

I called. 

Yes, my maid of honour who didn't want to have babies and got and IUD because her husband made her.

I left it until the last minute. My class was in the library getting their new books and I had about 9 minutes to talk. 

Man am I ever glad that her voice mail picked up!

This was my message:

"Hi there! Guess we're playing phone tag. Life has been so busy! Try giving me a call tomorrow afternoon, I'm not going to be at work so hopefully we'll get to talk."

So sweet, and yet so not.

The ball is in her court now. 

At least I phoned, yes?


  1. I think it was perfect, straight to the point and expressed your care and concern that you in fact are interested in talking (whether or not that is 100% true...time will tell when you actually talk to her!). Have a great rest of the week! Our weather in MN is absolutely gorgeous, hopefully you guys are the receiving end of some great weather as well!

  2. Good for you! Now you can "move on" whether or not she calls you back. You've done your part and at least for you the weight of this hopefully will lift from your thoughts.
    Good luck! Enjoy the beautiful weather!

  3. Good for you! If she calls back, I really hope it goes well. Good luck!

  4. Proud of you!!!! you did a good thing for yourself :)

  5. It's always SO wonderful to get voice mail when you are dreading the talk! Good for you!

  6. I'm glad that you now put the ball in her court. If she doesn't call back then you have the right to take a breather from that relationship. I do that every once in awhile with people, just give them the control and let them come to me. If they don't, then I guess they didn't want to be my friend anymore.

  7. Whew! I love it when life gives you little breaks like that. :-) Good for you for making the call!

  8. good for you! love when you get voicemail like that :).

  9. I LOVE VM for this very reason. Good for you and I hope the call back goes well.