tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3086515951454178468.post320443386871915365..comments2024-03-28T02:46:28.088-05:00Comments on Frustrated Musings of a Seemingly Calm Gal: More JellyBelly RantingsJellyBellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12446863670679588932noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3086515951454178468.post-89741384749137704082019-01-31T02:40:45.978-06:002019-01-31T02:40:45.978-06:00Thank you for sharing such important information. ...Thank you for sharing such important information. It will be very useful for us in future. Good keep it up and keep writing. 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Perhaps your friend blames herself for her child's cleft palate or, as Aurelia surmised, she's terrified something else is wrong. This may be the first truly difficult thing she's had to face as an adult.<BR/><BR/>However, this is not to say you shouldn't have your feelings. It can be really hard to deal with your own feelings without any input from her. I mean, if she had a heart-to-heart with you and said she was suffering terribly, your perspective would change, even if on some level you still thought she was overreacting. She may indeed need support, but just like you had to go out and get some help for depression, she has be to willing to receive it.Shinejilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03353174053245279899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3086515951454178468.post-74202869008554100992008-02-11T09:28:00.000-06:002008-02-11T09:28:00.000-06:00I'm guessing here, but having been through the pre...I'm guessing here, but having been through the prenatal diagnosis wringer, I'm wondering if the issue is that the Doctors weren't sure if that was the only thing wrong, and if so, what on earth else could be wrong.<BR/><BR/>Plus the guilt of course, since we now know that Cleft lips and palates are neural tube defects and possibly preventable with folic acid prior to conception. All she would've had to do was hear that and she would've been crushed, even though it's not something she would've known necessarily. <BR/><BR/>After the birth, when the Docs tell her that her child is really really okay and doesn't have any other related issues, (and there are dozens of other possibilities, some fatal), she may be able to relax, and let go of some of the guilt.<BR/><BR/>I understand how you feel, but try to be gentle with her, she needs supportive friends right now.Aureliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13691032415028867902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3086515951454178468.post-37879960046504671002008-02-11T09:05:00.000-06:002008-02-11T09:05:00.000-06:00I think I can understand the issues with having a ...I think I can understand the issues with having a baby that had a cleft palate better than the people who go into huge depression over having a baby that is a different gender than they hoped. In both cases - they still get their baby! It makes me nuts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com